Very Interesting!
Hey Anonymous! Tks for the comments, which is damn hilarious! Mmm...u sound indeed defensive on this issue...and that makes me wonder if:
1. You are hitting your 30s'
2. You are still single
3. You are an MCP
4. You are a below average looking person
5. Someone you tried to court in the past left you with bad experience
Haha! No offence though. But actually, this is something which my brother forwarded to me and I just decided to post it up that's all. Well, I do agree that there're indeed such females out there, that you have pointed out...i.e. those who sees the outer beauty rather than the inner beauty. But you can't deny the fact that in our society, looks does matter to a certain extent. Anyway, beauty lies in the eye of the beholder. I dare say that even guys also want to look for girls who are pretty, if not, at least pleasant looking. C'mon! Just face it...we're not living in this world of illusion! You have to realistic!
Being in the 21st century doesn't mean that WE have to make the first move. I actually have guy friends telling me that they get turn-off with females who makes the first move, and they don't feel comfortable with that. Maybe, it has got to do with a guy's ego. I don't know, coz I'm not a man. Anyway, I guess it's something very subjective, hence I shall not comment.
Sometimes, it's not a matter of being picky. Hey, we're toking abt looking for a soul mate or someone you can connect with. Looks aside, it still takes a lot of time and effort to look for the RIGHT one. That someone must have chemistry with you. It's not like using a stone and just throw, hit it, and take it! If that is the case, it could be one of the reasons on the rise of divorce cases then.
Anyway, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I guess my earlier post is actually what most females would agree. But please note that I'm not condeming guys out there, coz I do meet with really really nice guys. That said, there're also really nice gals out there. I believe that fate plays a big part as well. What will be yours, will eventually be yours. Good Luck to You if you're still single and searching for the right one! :)
posted by May Leen @ 11:00 PM
3 Comments:
well well
u are all wrong about me..
firstly.. i am only 25 this year, and graduated from NTU with Honors (second class upper) by the way...thank you very much... And yes i am single but enjoying wat single life brings.. MCP or not.. that is very subjective but to me .. there are worst than me....i can assure you..
talk about looks.. i am very sure to say i am a good looking person.. at least i have a complete face with no defects or abnormal growth here and or there.. thats good looking to start with... below average looking person is those who are FAT, SHORT, BAD COMPLEXION and NO DRESS SENSE..if a guy who does lots of sports and go gym regularly and is vain to a certain extend consisted a below average looking person.. then i can only say u look for material stuff and any tom dick harry can be yr bf... Lets see if u can stay someone who is shorter fatter and dont dress well.. would u have even given him a chance to chase you.. or show any slightest interest in him..
And for yr guy friends who did say that they are rather turn off by gals making that first move.. all i can say that their thinking is still in the prehistoric age or they are just trying damn pathetic hard to impress you.. trust me wat guys talk infront of gals and among them is totally diff.. if you never seems to realise it... EGO?? you mean gal chase guys is a damping factor to their ego?? Oh come on... they should be least grateful that someone is keen on them... beside.. you dont have to accept her if she is not the one .. so why bother so much about ego.. how much can a EGO thing Would????
It seems like some readers have forgotten that this is a person’s online diary. Has it been turned into a forum discussion site? Or debate site?
This little battle of the sexes on this blog is interesting. I find it amusing that there’re actually people out there who are so narrow-minded yet eager to show that they aren’t.
Gal, I’d suggest that you stop this little debate. Don’t waste your time with little boys.
hmm this Anonymous seems to be defending this naive gal.. hmm could it be because u are trying to chase her if u are a guy and want her to have a good impression... well try harder...
and hmm .. isnt it interesting to know there is another narrow minded person on the same wavelength as me.. if u dare say i am one.. cause it takes one narrow minded person to recognise another one.. so if u think u are not.. then dont go around saying other people... it isnt very nice of u to do that...
hmmm seems to be me wasting my time giving u a lesson in life...better things to do... like earning money .. lots of money in less than two mins.... sigh.. why life is so easy ...
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