Sunday, July 30, 2006

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Physical Touch.

Complete set of results

Quality Time:
9
Physical Touch:
8
Words of Affirmation:
7
Acts of Service:
6
Receiving Gifts:
0


(Well, I guess it basically means that I need tonnes of Love, Assurance, Attention and Security! Heehee)


Information
Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.


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When you're so busy and occupied...you just lost track of your date and time! And I actually thought that I had miss a very important meeting on Thursday! Ya...I know I'm like Sotong Queen. Well, just gota endure through till next week then I can shake legs liao! Muahaha

The whole of last week was like hell for me. I'm basically out for entertainment, meetings, press conferences, filming etc. No doubt when you're out, time passess faster...however, the moment you get back to the office, you'll have to face with loads of emails, tonnes of people looking for you and bugging you for stuffs, phonecalls etc. It's not fun at all! So I'll just stay back to clear up the accumulating work. If not, you won't be able to see me at my desk coz I'll be buried under all my documents and products!

Last last Friday I was in JB the whole day as we had some clients from Overseas. Since my boss wasn't around, I had to help to entertain them lor. But also good lah, coz that means I've got 2 FREE Yummy meals courtesy of my Company! *evils grin*...We went to this very nice seafood place which is super ulu lor. It's actually just opposite Pulua Ubin. Food is good, price is cheap, ambience is cool! Haha...But dun ask me how to get there! I'm superly bad with Malaysia Roads unless it's the highway! Muahaha...Anyway, by the time we got back Singapore and fetched them to the airport, it was already 9+pm. Miss Clara, being the angle came all the way to pick me and shan-mei from the airport and off we went to Fisherman Village together with Mathew, Pow and Qiuyu for supper and kopi. The reason: Miss Clara die die also won't stay out late during the 7th Month...so it was like her last late nite outing before she becomes a *ahem* Cinderalla...whose slippers will drop off at 6pm!! Muahaha....Tink she'll kill me if she's reading this! Shhhh....

Just on Monday I was at our office in Tuas. It's soooo far and I really 佩服 people who worked there. It's really like the other end of Singapore. That reminds me of my sis last time who used to work there...and she'll be up and out early so as to avoid the morning traffic. Being the kiasu one as well, I went out at around 7.45am...suprisngly, traffic was smooth and I reached our Tuas office at around 8.30am! Heehee...In case you're wondering....Nope, I didn't get lost...Thanks to my walking street directory who drove me all the way there the day before to locate the place . *so touched*....Ok, back to our Tuas plant. Although I've been working in my Company for around 1yr+, this is still the first time I actually went to visit the plant there. Quite an eye opener though it was damn hot there lor. Learn a lot of new things as well.

Yesterday I was in IMM for the final Superband Roadshow. Ohh!...The final 4 members are sooo sweet especially for Lucify and Souls! Nope. I'm not a supporter of any of the bands. And frankly speaking, I hate Lucify coz of their J-Pop wanabe image which I personally cannot really take it. But then, yesterday when I was with all the members in the holding room, they are really such cute boys who are really funny. I mean, they did little silly actions in the room which was really amusing. And yes, being a sponsor...I had the privilege to get up close and personal with them. Then you'll realised that there're little gals who'll ask you to help them get their autographs or pass gifts, love notes etc. to them. Their screams nearly made me deaf and that was the reason why I went to hide inside the holding room! Suddenly, it then occured to me...my teenage years as compared to the current teenagers now is so different!! In terms of dressing, mannerism, behaviour and of coz, their spending power. I feel so old now! *pouts*...Anyway, the finals will be held on 5th August @ Singapore Expo Max Pavilion Hall 7. I've got FREE tickets so do let me know if you guys are interested as the tickets are not being sold to public.

Lately, I've become a Fancl addict! Have been buying a lot of their beauty supplements. Muahaha...I'm currently taking the Aqua Moist and Tense-Up. It's pretty pricy especially for the Tense-up, but in order to get glowing and radiant skin, ok, or rather me being a vainpot...no choice lah....damages like this is inevitable! Heehee

Anyway, Fancl is having a promotion for the Tense-Up right now. Do check out their webby for more details. Not been shopping much lately other than buying beauty supplements! So am feeling kinda depressed. Okok...I know I'm supposed to keep to my mid-year resolutions, unfortunately, I've committed one of the sins - Gluttony. *guilties* Am trying to eat less now, especially for my Carbo intake. Being a 饭桶 since young, it's pretty difficult not eating rice though I've been cutting down a lot already. Really envious of people who can eat and eat, yet not grow fat at all. The world is just so unfair! *humph*


Wednesday, July 19, 2006

No doubt I've put the whole incident behind me, I still found it disgusting when I hear from sources that there're bitches who kept on bad-mouthing about me when they leave. Unfortunately, people got eyes to see who are the devils! And after analysing, it all boils down to 1 word: Jealousy. I also realised that some people resort to unscrupulous methods all because they are simply incapable. So they definately have to use underhand ways in order to gain sympathy. Anyway, just hoped that they'd better be careful especially on raining days! You never know where the lightning will strike. Well, at least I'm proud to say I can lift up my head high and not have any guilty conscience! I AM NOT AFRAID!!!! Oh well, just bear with me...anyway, this will be the last time I'll be ranting on this issue. Period.

Anyway, as for the new team, so far so good. Am keeping my fingers crossed. Been very busy with work recently. Was at the Classified Car-nival last Sunday. Response was overwhelming as compared to last year. Probably this time round it was being held in Singapore Expo...got aircon and more accessible as compared to Marina South. And when you have a wacky team of sales guy to work with, time passess fast and we even went to queue up to sit on the Stunt Ride. Yeah...we were Soooo close in sitting the Evo-9! Damnz! Heng heng when it was our turn, they changed the car to the Lancer 1.6.... Nonetheless, it was quite an experience lah. And did I realised the driver, K. Tamaguci is a well known duno wat lah. Guess I just sit blindly. *shrugs*....Haha


This is the best view I can get without having to squeeze with anyone. Heehee....Am trying to download the video which I took from my digicam...but seems that the file is too big to be uploaded. Well, for those who are keen, let me know and I'll send you through msn.

Counting down to August so that I can go for my long overdued break which I needed badly! Very burnt-out already. Despite having to deal with all the 小人 (s) for the past 1 month and facing with the accumulating workload, well...I still love my job! Bedtime...a long day again tml. Nitez

Saturday, July 15, 2006

亲者至亲

I'm pretty happy and relieved today as I've closed another small chapter in my life. And I'm pretty amused by the fact that what I write in my blog actually affected some people. Muahaha....oh well, I've only 1 word to describe them: 心虚!! Anyway, I'm not going to change my blog address nor delete my post as what I've written here is the truth....Nothing but the Truth. Anyway, this is MY blog, where I write my real personal thoughts and feelings. People can misjudge or misunderstand me for all they want as I can't force them to agree with me either. The only thing is that sometimes, I just hate it when people backstab and make false accusations of me without reflecting upon themseleves first. Haiz...it's ok. So be it lor. It's their mouth. What more can I say rite? Anyway, people got eyes to judge...and of coz, 天有眼. KARMA-KARMA!!!...It Will Come!...

Chapter Closed Now. It's just another part and parcel of life. Come to think of it, mine is not so jialat liao...one of my friend who's working as an air-stewardess is definately suffering more shyte than me. So, I'm considered luckier! Heehee...Ok, time for a good nite's sleep. *Grinz*...Nitey!

Wednesday, July 12, 2006

Top Of the World




Though I'm not really feeling Top of the World right now especially when I've still gota work this coming Sunday, it's still a great song that I would want to post it here. It brings me back to my primary school days!!...Carefree and Stress-free! Shall blog again when I'm free. Nitez

Sunday, July 02, 2006

Last Thursday was my first time having to stay in office or rather, my warehouse till nearly 10pm! John, our designer and I were basically slogging our ass to put up the design for our vending machine which was a disaster as both of us practically do not have any experience, the skill nor the tools to do it! At one point of time, I nearly cried and so much wanted to give up as it’s really tough pasting it, then there's no ventilation along the corridor of that office...felt so suffocated and the dateline is the very next day! I’m glad we persevered and...ta-da!.....Here it is...the end-product!...



Heehee...Mission finally accomplished! Okok...it looks nice from far lah...haha...but please don’t go and scrutinize it, coz we have really tried our best! Really gota thank my new designer John as well. He definately put in more effort than I do to complete this project. Very positive working attitude as well. Oh! Forgot to mention that it is located at Orchard MRT, towards the Wisma direction. Anyway, do support our canned drinks ya!

Friday was the last day of one my colleagues or rather...someone whom I used to respect and trust. But not anymore. Now I wonder is there someone who has been 挑拨离间 and causing misunderstanding between us. And yes, I was definitely treated very differently. Even those people whom she used to hate all got a little farewell gift or their pix taken with except me. In a way, it actually proved to me that what I/We have been thinking is correct, it’s only that I’m still the dumb one, who keeps giving her the benefit of the doubt. But I felt very misunderstood, got implicated and became a victim for no reason. The world is just so unfair. I’m not feeling sore or anything in particular as I know this is how the real society works. Infact, I just found the whole political issue so childish, yet amusing. Really can’t believe that there’re such shallow and petty people around. Well, probably she felt just as misunderstood. Mmm… if there’s really a 3rd party who has been spreading untrue tales about me, I hoped this person gets her retribution. Remember Karma?...What goes around comes around. I have done nothing against my consciences nor harm anyone. There's nothing I can do if people want to behave in such irrational behaviour. And it only makes me wonder of what kind of values she's going to instill in her kids in future and the upbringing. Come to think of it, I'm glad that my parents brought me up the right way. Well, this is just only part of the chapter in my life. Will close this chapter now…tomorrow will be another new chapter. Life goes on and I'm looking forward to a new team altoghter.

Met up with my ex-colleague for breakfast, loads of bitching session and of coz shopping yesterday. Sheena, or I affectionaly call her as "
Na-Na" is also one of my closer pals now. She's such a darling by accompanying me under the bloody hot sun yesterday @ Bugis where I had to work for a while, giving out our Cafe Nova Mobile Strap to people, as there was the Superband Comeback Show 2 Roadshow. It's quite interesting how our friendship actually blossomed only towards the end after she tendered her resignation. Nevertheless, we still keep in constant contacts thru emails, smses and outings. Looking forward to our next outing together with our R&D gals next Wednesday for steamboat porridge. Sounds alien to me....never tried before. Seems to be its like porridge then everything throw inside?? Haha...am a mountain tortise. Somebody please enlighten me if you've tried before ya. Thanks!

July is another start of a busy month and it just occured to me that it's aready more than mid-year gone. And I also realised that I failed to fulfill most of my New Year Resolutions which I wrote earlier this year. *guilty*...Shall re-state my resolutions...Mid-Year Resolutions:

1. To be a happier person
2. To shop less
3. To eat less
4. To sleep more
4. To spend more time with my family & friends
5. To love and pamper myself more
6. To think less = Stress less
7. To bitch less
8. To be less grumpy & grouchy
9. To be less fickle-minded
10. To find true love...if such thing ever exist in the first place!

Yeah...corny mid-year resolutions! Hahahaa.....Time for a Nap! Zzzz...